Saturday, October 27, 2012

3 Months...LONG.. 2704 Kms

You might be wondering what it is there to write about after so long time.. well here is am, charged up with a new story, a new girl in the past 3 months... i found a girl in a online site , hoping to befriend her.. i used my charm by saying all the things i love to chat about, ( nerdy stuff is what it is) Things went along as quickly as it could, i became the blue eyed person with lot of "WOW.. ABE" in the talks... even some of the girl`s relatives liked me when i chatted with them, then i felt the urge to share the thought of this wonderful new thing with someone very close, HE happen to be my boss. Encouraged by him, and all the possible scenarios to discuss about, i met her more and more in the online medium and once at time, would wait for her.. hours even days to hear her voice... She happen to be located in the frontiers of India where one get to find hard working people, YES.. it is PUNJAB... and i am not going to say more... it is beautiiiifullll place in my opinion.. active people, active in everything... My company has lot of requisites for business development in that region, fortunately or fate,, i happen to handle that particular region, so i was asked to go and visit the region for the first time.. FIRST TIME: emphasizing the word would also mean that i am doing the first meeting with her.. i am not going to eloborate on that.. since it is to my and the family that i met.. but, i assure you, you get your heart and stomach filled plenty if you are going to a punjabi girl house... i stayed there for a day at her house.. they took me to jalian wallah bagh & Golden Temple in Amristar. The things so happened at huge in my memory .. i am going to remember it long.... it will stay in my memory.. and that is all i can share for now.. the rest... if i get to write about.. and don`t dream of the topic on LOVE or crush.. it is more like a nerdy friendship.. it will end as soon as she forgets me... hehehehe


Here is the full version as narrated by me to my friend via whatsapp:

09/02/18, 8:22 AM - Messages to this chat and calls are now secured with end-to-end encryption. Tap for more info.

09/02/18, 8:22 AM - Abe: Good morning Sunitha

09/02/18, 8:22 AM - Abe: This is Abe

09/02/18, 8:32 AM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Good morning Abe.

09/02/18, 8:35 AM - Abe: Have an awesome day

09/02/18, 8:40 AM - Sunitha Gurusamy: 😊 you too

09/02/18, 1:30 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hi Abe!

09/02/18, 1:30 PM - Abe: Hi Sunitha

09/02/18, 1:31 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: What are you doing? At work? Lame question

09/02/18, 1:31 PM - Abe: Yes I am.. and I am playing virtual cricket here

09/02/18, 1:32 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Everything virtual in your life.

09/02/18, 1:32 PM - Abe: Haha. Not so much

09/02/18, 1:32 PM - Abe: What about you??

09/02/18, 1:32 PM - Abe: In lunch break?

09/02/18, 1:33 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Nope. Connectivity problems so kinda bored and reading quora

09/02/18, 1:33 PM - Abe: Good good

09/02/18, 1:33 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: What's good in that

09/02/18, 1:33 PM - Abe: Reading more than 6 hours a day...

09/02/18, 1:33 PM - Abe: That's something good for the months ahead.

09/02/18, 1:34 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Wait I will be back

09/02/18, 1:37 PM - Abe: Okay

09/02/18, 1:59 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I was not reading about subject

09/02/18, 2:10 PM - Abe: Oh. What's that in your mind

09/02/18, 2:11 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Means?

09/02/18, 2:12 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I was reading about questions of upsc.

09/02/18, 2:12 PM - Abe: It's facebook way of asking.. remember.. that's what usually in Facebook wall... I am asking.. what you are thinking about...

09/02/18, 2:12 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hehe

09/02/18, 2:12 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I don't use fb

09/02/18, 2:12 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I used like in 2012

09/02/18, 2:41 PM - Abe: Oh..

09/02/18, 2:41 PM - Abe: The new age Mahalakshmi

09/02/18, 2:42 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Apdi na

09/02/18, 2:43 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: One customer literally eating our brain.

09/02/18, 2:44 PM - Abe: Oh.. is it he or she?

09/02/18, 2:44 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: First he came then she

09/02/18, 2:44 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Now the other he

09/02/18, 2:44 PM - Abe: The one who is known to resort to skipping 2 yugams of life.. social life and digital life...

09/02/18, 2:44 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: 😉

09/02/18, 2:45 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hey I am fun girl just fb don't appeal me much

09/02/18, 2:46 PM - Abe: Oh..

09/02/18, 2:46 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I use Quora

09/02/18, 2:46 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Do you?

09/02/18, 2:46 PM - Abe: You Just need to have personal touch.. stand up.. walk towards them and put a hand in their shoulder

09/02/18, 2:47 PM - Abe: I read in Quora

09/02/18, 2:47 PM - Abe: I don't have an account there...

09/02/18, 2:47 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Yeah.

09/02/18, 2:49 PM - Abe: 😊

09/02/18, 2:50 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I feel fb is so fake

09/02/18, 2:51 PM - Abe: It is.. but it's a known devil..

09/02/18, 2:51 PM - Abe: I happen to have met so many people in real life.. yet still I keep in touch with them...

09/02/18, 2:51 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Our personal life is never personal in todays world

09/02/18, 2:51 PM - Abe: But it's now becoming so in your face.. personal...

09/02/18, 2:51 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: That's good.

09/02/18, 2:52 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I guess you are avid fb user 😉

09/02/18, 2:52 PM - Abe: Yes..

09/02/18, 2:52 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Cool

09/02/18, 2:53 PM - Abe: I usually take a month long detox in the month of Feb and March..

09/02/18, 2:53 PM - Abe: I didn't go FB longer than 2 hours in the last 3 weeks

09/02/18, 2:53 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: People perspective about fb.

09/02/18, 2:54 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Is different Abe.

09/02/18, 2:54 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Cool.

09/02/18, 2:55 PM - Abe: Yeah.. I also happen to know predators in the facebook

09/02/18, 2:55 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I didn't mean about predators

09/02/18, 2:56 PM - Abe: 👍

09/02/18, 3:00 PM - Abe: Dealt with the agitated client?

09/02/18, 3:00 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Uff. Yeah they lefy

09/02/18, 3:00 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Left*

09/02/18, 3:00 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Their account has became npa

09/02/18, 3:00 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Claiming Interest certificate for IT

09/02/18, 3:01 PM - Abe: Oh..

09/02/18, 3:01 PM - Abe: Troubled waters...

09/02/18, 3:01 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: They didn't pay single rupee for past 4 years

09/02/18, 3:02 PM - Abe: That's bad

09/02/18, 3:02 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: We told make account regular then we will provide

09/02/18, 3:02 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Education loan bte

09/02/18, 3:02 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Btw *

09/02/18, 3:03 PM - Abe: I get you.

09/02/18, 3:03 PM - Abe: Sad v live in world

09/02/18, 3:03 PM - Abe: Where this happens

09/02/18, 3:03 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Yeah. So much attitude

09/02/18, 3:04 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: That women daughter got the loan.

09/02/18, 3:04 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: She is married now. So she didn't bother to repay it.

09/02/18, 3:05 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: That women sent her husband, who is a police.

09/02/18, 3:05 PM - Abe: Oh...

09/02/18, 3:05 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: That man literally not talking with sense at all

09/02/18, 3:06 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Oh boy. Way too much.

09/02/18, 3:07 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Am sorry Abe. Am I disturbing you?

09/02/18, 3:08 PM - Abe: Yeah.. I have been there..

09/02/18, 3:08 PM - Abe: Cha cha.

09/02/18, 3:08 PM - Abe: You are so sweet...

09/02/18, 3:09 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: No am not.

09/02/18, 3:10 PM - Abe: Yes you are..

09/02/18, 3:10 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: You didn't know me well. Am devil

09/02/18, 3:11 PM - Abe: Oh.. on the bright side like Gabriel or evil side like Satan?

09/02/18, 3:12 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I don't hurt people

09/02/18, 3:12 PM - Abe: Then you are sweet.. make my word..

09/02/18, 3:12 PM - Abe: Mark my word..

09/02/18, 3:12 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: 🤦🏽‍♀

09/02/18, 3:13 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Which Gabriel

09/02/18, 3:13 PM - Abe: To my known level of conversation that I had. With you over past 100 hours..

09/02/18, 3:13 PM - Abe: You are good.. and sweet..

09/02/18, 3:14 PM - Abe: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gabriel

09/02/18, 3:14 PM - Abe: Gabriel the Angel of Death

09/02/18, 3:15 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Wow

09/02/18, 3:16 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ciao

09/02/18, 3:17 PM - Abe: Okay

09/02/18, 3:17 PM - Abe: See you soon

09/02/18, 6:40 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hi

09/02/18, 6:42 PM - Abe: Hi Sunitha

09/02/18, 6:43 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Done with work3

09/02/18, 6:43 PM - Abe: Yes

09/02/18, 6:43 PM - Abe: I just started back home

09/02/18, 6:43 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Cool.

09/02/18, 6:43 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I started to cmbt

09/02/18, 6:44 PM - Abe: Oh.. cool.. how long before you reach Koyambedu..

09/02/18, 6:44 PM - Abe: Because I am in Koyambedu

09/02/18, 6:45 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I just started

09/02/18, 6:45 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: In highways

09/02/18, 6:45 PM - Abe: Oh.. by metro?

09/02/18, 6:45 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Damn it

09/02/18, 6:45 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I forgot metro totally

09/02/18, 6:46 PM - Abe: Oh.. you already took bus?

09/02/18, 6:46 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Yes. Next time I ll have to take metro.

09/02/18, 6:46 PM - Abe: Cool

09/02/18, 6:47 PM - Abe: So.. it will be another 40 mins for you to reach Koyambedu?

09/02/18, 6:47 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Yes.

09/02/18, 6:47 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Then I gotta start to Tiruvannamalai

09/02/18, 6:47 PM - Abe: Do you like me to wait and wave bye?

09/02/18, 6:48 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ah no its okay.

09/02/18, 6:48 PM - Abe: Okay..

09/02/18, 6:48 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Don't wait up.

09/02/18, 6:48 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: You go with your plan

09/02/18, 6:48 PM - Abe: I usually take the 7:15 bus...

09/02/18, 6:48 PM - Abe: I can extend it to 7:35

09/02/18, 6:49 PM - Abe: No issues

09/02/18, 6:49 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Am meeting my college friend. She and I ll go for a bite

09/02/18, 6:49 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Where are you going

09/02/18, 6:49 PM - Abe: Oh.. okay.. I am just going back home.. just left.. since I was done with work for the day..

09/02/18, 6:50 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: And your home at?

09/02/18, 6:51 PM - Abe: Thiruvanmiyur

09/02/18, 6:51 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Oh boy

09/02/18, 6:51 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: So work at?

09/02/18, 6:51 PM - Abe: Anna Nagar..

09/02/18, 6:51 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: 😳

09/02/18, 6:52 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: This end to that end.

09/02/18, 6:52 PM - Abe: Yep

09/02/18, 6:52 PM - Abe: Listen.. if you could share me your exact location now..

09/02/18, 6:53 PM - Abe: I could be ascertained that you would be late or early

09/02/18, 6:53 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Am in the highways

09/02/18, 6:53 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: From perungulathur

09/02/18, 6:54 PM - Abe: Oh.. pretty sure you will reach by 8:30

09/02/18, 6:54 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: It's okay Abe. You start.

09/02/18, 6:54 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: 8.30 uh?

09/02/18, 6:54 PM - Abe: Get down at alandur or airport and take metro

09/02/18, 6:54 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Kashtam

09/02/18, 6:55 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: No listen.

09/02/18, 6:55 PM - Abe: I advise you.. saves you lot of back ache trouble

09/02/18, 6:55 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Am coming in Bangalore Highways

09/02/18, 6:55 PM - Abe: Oh..

09/02/18, 6:55 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Don't you know that Highways?

09/02/18, 6:55 PM - Abe: That's even worse

09/02/18, 6:55 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Yep

09/02/18, 6:56 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: 😳

09/02/18, 6:56 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Dude I already regret not taking metro

09/02/18, 6:56 PM - Abe: 🤣

09/02/18, 6:56 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Don't make me more guilty

09/02/18, 6:57 PM - Abe: peace Furious girl

09/02/18, 6:57 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Am so stupid

09/02/18, 6:57 PM - Abe: You are not

09/02/18, 6:57 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I thought to start by 4. But stupid connectivity made me more late

09/02/18, 6:58 PM - Abe: Still moving slow traffic.. right?

09/02/18, 6:58 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Am near toll. I guess.

09/02/18, 6:58 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I made huge blunder

09/02/18, 6:59 PM - Abe: Chill chill..

09/02/18, 6:59 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I shouldn't have come via this way

09/02/18, 6:59 PM - Abe: Hope it's a seat for you to sit and commute

09/02/18, 6:59 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: No its not about timing

09/02/18, 7:00 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I was driving a car on this highway when I heard news about dad passed away.

09/02/18, 7:00 PM - Abe: Oh. Poor dear ...

09/02/18, 7:00 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Exactly near toll.

09/02/18, 7:01 PM - Abe: There there..

09/02/18, 7:01 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I didn't realize

09/02/18, 7:01 PM - Abe: <Media omitted>

09/02/18, 7:01 PM - Abe: When someone cries near me..

09/02/18, 7:02 PM - Abe: This is how I console them.. hands on their cheeks and tears wiping down

09/02/18, 7:02 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: It's Ok. I can't avoid this way all my life

09/02/18, 7:02 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: That's nice

09/02/18, 7:03 PM - Abe: 🤝

09/02/18, 7:04 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: 🙂

09/02/18, 7:04 PM - Abe: Sunitha.. forgive me for being stubborn.. but I am gonna wait on you..

09/02/18, 7:04 PM - Abe: Come see me when you reach Koyambedu

09/02/18, 7:04 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: No

09/02/18, 7:04 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Please

09/02/18, 7:05 PM - Abe: No please

09/02/18, 7:05 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I have a friend coming

09/02/18, 7:05 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I asked please first

09/02/18, 7:05 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: You said to see Me as an IAS remember

09/02/18, 7:05 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Am fine.

09/02/18, 7:06 PM - Abe: Sure??

09/02/18, 7:06 PM - Abe: No cry baby..??

09/02/18, 7:07 PM - Abe: Promise me!!

09/02/18, 7:07 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Don't feel sorry for me

09/02/18, 7:07 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I won't cry. Am a strong woman.

09/02/18, 7:08 PM - Abe: Good woman!!

09/02/18, 7:08 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: 🙂

09/02/18, 7:09 PM - Abe: What thought do you have now?

09/02/18, 7:09 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I won't say

09/02/18, 7:09 PM - Abe: Come on.. two minds can solve lot of things..

09/02/18, 7:10 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Thinking about appa

09/02/18, 7:10 PM - Abe: What's the other thing that made you miss him the most?

09/02/18, 7:11 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: That I never get to say him am sorry to hurt him

09/02/18, 7:11 PM - Abe: What was that?

09/02/18, 7:11 PM - Abe: Sad words or harsh words in the conversation that you wish you had with him?

09/02/18, 7:12 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Last year around April end or may end. Dad said he has some marriage proposal for me

09/02/18, 7:12 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Harsh words

09/02/18, 7:12 PM - Abe: Oh..

09/02/18, 7:12 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I said I need to concentrate on career so don't force me.

09/02/18, 7:13 PM - Abe: Arranged marriage by known relatives??

09/02/18, 7:13 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: We had big fight

09/02/18, 7:13 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: No no not relatives

09/02/18, 7:13 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: He kinda stopped talking with me

09/02/18, 7:14 PM - Abe: Oh.. were you having someone who had your heart broken???

09/02/18, 7:14 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I was also so stubborn

09/02/18, 7:14 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Yeah I was in relationship but we broke up

09/02/18, 7:14 PM - Abe: I know that career comes high in your self motivation.. but there must have been some force to make you move mountains..

09/02/18, 7:15 PM - Abe: I had a Punjabi girl once to love... I was unstoppable to have fallen head over heels for her.. but.. she said the exact same thing.. career Abe.. and I am too young for you to be married and settled..

09/02/18, 7:16 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: No its not about him.

09/02/18, 7:16 PM - Abe: But I went back to help her out in the most and best possible way.. that she could never ever forget in her life..

09/02/18, 7:16 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Dad always wanted me to see as an ias

09/02/18, 7:16 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hmm

09/02/18, 7:17 PM - Abe: She stopped talking with me for about a year.. she joined Tech Mahindra in Bengaluru which I came to know late..

09/02/18, 7:17 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Okay

09/02/18, 7:17 PM - Abe: I went to meet her and her all extended family...

09/02/18, 7:17 PM - Abe: I could literally write a story...

09/02/18, 7:18 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: What happened then

09/02/18, 7:18 PM - Abe: Okay... Let me start from the beginning...

09/02/18, 7:18 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I kinda stopped believing in love. My family helped me through my tough times

09/02/18, 7:18 PM - Abe: The year is 2011..

09/02/18, 7:19 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 7:19 PM - Abe: I was fresh out of my masters and started being assistant professor

09/02/18, 7:19 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Okay

09/02/18, 7:19 PM - Abe: I had so much ample time that I wasted much of it in online..

09/02/18, 7:20 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 7:20 PM - Abe: I had two tools to be spoofer of single and awesome people..

09/02/18, 7:20 PM - Abe: Matrimonial sites and facebook

09/02/18, 7:20 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Haha ok

09/02/18, 7:21 PM - Abe: So.. using account on matrimonial sites.. I was looking in alphabetical order on which family names rhyme good and awesome behind Abeneth...

09/02/18, 7:21 PM - Abe: I found first one as Arora..

09/02/18, 7:21 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Lol

09/02/18, 7:21 PM - Abe: It rhymes with Aurora lights of the north pole..

09/02/18, 7:21 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: So you wanted your wife surname?

09/02/18, 7:22 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Cool

09/02/18, 7:22 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: That's nice

09/02/18, 7:22 PM - Abe: So.. I took time to scavenge the pics and ages and prettiness level..

09/02/18, 7:23 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Good job buddy

09/02/18, 7:23 PM - Abe: And there she was.. 22.. Vishwani Arora.. Jalandhar Punjab

09/02/18, 7:23 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: What was your age then

09/02/18, 7:23 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Punjabi girls are beautiful

09/02/18, 7:23 PM - Abe: 2011...7 years ago.. 24 ish..

09/02/18, 7:24 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 7:24 PM - Abe: Yes... She was...

09/02/18, 7:24 PM - Abe: So.. back to the story again...

09/02/18, 7:25 PM - Abe: I was spell bound by her pink blush.. cheeks.. and she had a gleaming white and amber teeth.. which I later came to know was fake due to an accident in her childhood..

09/02/18, 7:25 PM - Abe: So.. I took to my second tool. Facebook

09/02/18, 7:25 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 7:25 PM - Abe: I found that she was more good looking there...

09/02/18, 7:26 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: 👏🏽

09/02/18, 7:26 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: A complete stalker

09/02/18, 7:26 PM - Abe: I must have sent something cheesy... That she replied was haha.. that's funny.. and she replied back to me..

09/02/18, 7:27 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: And?

09/02/18, 7:27 PM - Abe: So.. there I was.. level 1 of knowing an unknown person..in just a few million miles from home...

09/02/18, 7:27 PM - Abe: Next... She started conversing with me regularly..

09/02/18, 7:27 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Million?

09/02/18, 7:27 PM - Abe: I got introduced in Matrimony site too with formal interest..

09/02/18, 7:27 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 7:28 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: She was in matrimonial sight too3

09/02/18, 7:28 PM - Abe: Her mother seems to handle her account.. which she equally found me charming and we'll learnt.. maapla is dual degree holder..

09/02/18, 7:28 PM - Abe: Yes...

09/02/18, 7:28 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Are you Punjabi?

09/02/18, 7:28 PM - Abe: No...

09/02/18, 7:29 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Continue

09/02/18, 7:29 PM - Abe: I am born and brought up in Tamil nadu..

09/02/18, 7:29 PM - Abe: I know this might seem unreal.. but that's how it is..

09/02/18, 7:29 PM - Abe: Anyway..

09/02/18, 7:29 PM - Abe: I started speaking with her daily..

09/02/18, 7:29 PM - Abe: Skype calls..

09/02/18, 7:29 PM - Abe: Texts...

09/02/18, 7:29 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Are you Tamil?

09/02/18, 7:30 PM - Abe: Yes I am Tamil..

09/02/18, 7:30 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Long distance hardly works

09/02/18, 7:30 PM - Abe: She liked me more in motivating her and supporting her in all her thoughts..

09/02/18, 7:30 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Cool

09/02/18, 7:31 PM - Abe: I was working in Murugappa group as Product development manager in Agriculture equipment..

09/02/18, 7:31 PM - Abe: Any guess where the major industrial belt of Agriculture is?

09/02/18, 7:31 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 7:31 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Coimbatore

09/02/18, 7:31 PM - Abe: Naaaahhh..

09/02/18, 7:31 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I don't know

09/02/18, 7:31 PM - Abe: Wrong answer!!

09/02/18, 7:32 PM - Abe: Punjab...

09/02/18, 7:32 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: ohhhhh

09/02/18, 7:32 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Gotcha

09/02/18, 7:32 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Go on

09/02/18, 7:32 PM - Abe: It so happened that I use to be the geek who knows all the stuff in my department..

09/02/18, 7:32 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 7:32 PM - Abe: And I happen to have love to learn stuff and teach stuff..

09/02/18, 7:33 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 7:33 PM - Abe: I was new joinee and I happen to have orientation in actual agricultural equipment..so.. I need to be involved in every possible way...

09/02/18, 7:33 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 7:35 PM - Abe: So.. whenever I talk to my boss.. he is such an amazing person.. I talk all the things in my life.. love story.. farm equipment.. new product ideas..

09/02/18, 7:36 PM - Abe: I was telling him about how much I have been loving this girl..

09/02/18, 7:36 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Okay

09/02/18, 7:36 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Fine

09/02/18, 7:36 PM - Abe: And he was like.. man.. you should go see her in person.. chumma.. anbe aruyire and all this online funda is no good.. he said..

09/02/18, 7:37 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Haha he is so right

09/02/18, 7:37 PM - Abe: So.. somehow I had the urge to see her for real.. so.. I went home.. told mom and dad that I wanted to see her..

09/02/18, 7:37 PM - Abe: They said okay cool...

09/02/18, 7:38 PM - Abe: Mom got her a saree... And dad got me the flight ticket planned for 3 days at Jalandhar, Punjab.

09/02/18, 7:38 PM - Abe: I went the next day to office to inform my boss..

09/02/18, 7:38 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 7:39 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Nice of your parents

09/02/18, 7:39 PM - Abe: Sir was like, " idiot! I was planning to send you across as official trip and make you sit on her house and impress her with all corporate charm"

09/02/18, 7:39 PM - Abe: He said.. wait and picked up my immediate boss in call and shouted..

09/02/18, 7:40 PM - Abe: Srini.. I want this Abeneth to go and see the tractors and harvester combines in Punjab..

09/02/18, 7:40 PM - Abe: This guy has no idea of Business driven research..

09/02/18, 7:40 PM - Abe: I want this guy gone for a week...

09/02/18, 7:40 PM - Abe: Now...

09/02/18, 7:40 PM - Abe: And he cut the call..

09/02/18, 7:40 PM - Abe: He turned to me and said..now go back to your cabin casually..

09/02/18, 7:41 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Haha

09/02/18, 7:41 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Write a story dude

09/02/18, 7:41 PM - Abe: Srini will come and ask if I shouted on you.. just tell him that I was ignorant on so and so..

09/02/18, 7:41 PM - Abe: I did the exact same thing..

09/02/18, 7:41 PM - Abe: Srini came to ask me details and said..

09/02/18, 7:42 PM - Abe: Ma.. please book the ticket and go ma.. big boss is scolding on me..

09/02/18, 7:42 PM - Abe: I said okay sir..

09/02/18, 7:42 PM - Abe: And I just chumma went searched tickets online..

09/02/18, 7:42 PM - Abe: In another ten mins he came back to ask status..

09/02/18, 7:42 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Alright

09/02/18, 7:43 PM - Abe: I told him sir.. I am starting tomorrow and coming back one week later..

09/02/18, 7:43 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Good

09/02/18, 7:43 PM - Abe: Ma.. today is Friday and how did you plan to get ticket on Saturday.. corporate ticket will take minimum 3 days to book..

09/02/18, 7:43 PM - Abe: I told him.. sir... I already booked.. here is the ticket..

09/02/18, 7:43 PM - Abe: He was shocked..

09/02/18, 7:44 PM - Abe: This is not procedure ma..

09/02/18, 7:44 PM - Abe: You should send mail to parry travels and they will revert back to you in hour or so..

09/02/18, 7:44 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Why that ma

09/02/18, 7:44 PM - Abe: He always calls me enna ma.. sollu ma.. and always ma ma ma..

09/02/18, 7:45 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: OK ok

09/02/18, 7:45 PM - Abe: He then said.. it's okay.. go and do your packing.. see your report in 1 week.

09/02/18, 7:45 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Sure that's bound to happen

09/02/18, 7:46 PM - Abe: The actual flight was on Saturday morning to Jalandhar.. Saturday night stay at her home and return to Ludhiana to her grandma house on Sunday after site seeing in few places and then leave to Chennai on Sunday night..

09/02/18, 7:46 PM - Abe: But because of my boss..

09/02/18, 7:47 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I am kinda lost

09/02/18, 7:47 PM - Abe: I pushed the return date to next Saturday and comfortably planned Saturday, Sunday and Monday morning in My Vishwani house..

09/02/18, 7:47 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: So both of the parents agreed for this marriage?

09/02/18, 7:48 PM - Abe: She has no father..

09/02/18, 7:48 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: I meant both of you

09/02/18, 7:48 PM - Abe: He passed away on pancreatic cancer.. when she was in 7th STD..

09/02/18, 7:48 PM - Abe: Yes.. both my parents are good.

09/02/18, 7:48 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Oh poor thing

09/02/18, 7:49 PM - Abe: So.. back to story...??

09/02/18, 7:49 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Sure

09/02/18, 7:50 PM - Abe: So.. I reached my marketing office there in Ludhiana.. and reported to regional guy.. he was all smiling and welcoming.. he directly reports to Super boss.. my love expert.. Mr. Mukund..

09/02/18, 7:50 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Oh God

09/02/18, 7:50 PM - Abe: And the regional marketing guy's name is Gurneeraj Singh.. aka Guru

09/02/18, 7:50 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Cool

09/02/18, 7:51 PM - Abe: So.. Mukund.. already spoke with Guru and said.. listen this guy is coming to learn market.. but more importantly he is coming for his love..

09/02/18, 7:51 PM - Abe: Help him out..

09/02/18, 7:52 PM - Abe: And as soon as I landed and greeted with him.. since me being new joinee and stuff I was not aware of much corporate ethics.. that's the reason I didn't know about the Parry Travels booking procedure..

09/02/18, 7:52 PM - Abe: So.. he said.. you are going to be groom for Punjab.. so. I am going to make sure that everything is taken care of..

09/02/18, 7:53 PM - Abe: Guru booked the office car.. made the driver go via Ludhiana to Jalandhar.. in the mid way he asked to driver to pick up the girl after her work along with me..

09/02/18, 7:54 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Wait

09/02/18, 7:54 PM - Abe: I spoke with the driver.. learnt some cheesy Punjabi catch phrases

09/02/18, 7:54 PM - Abe: Yes... Tell me..

09/02/18, 7:54 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Pause the story

09/02/18, 7:54 PM - Abe: Okay

09/02/18, 7:54 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Gonna eat

09/02/18, 7:54 PM - Abe: 👍

09/02/18, 7:55 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Will be back

09/02/18, 7:55 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Sorry

09/02/18, 7:55 PM - Abe: Sure

09/02/18, 8:44 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Continue

09/02/18, 8:53 PM - Abe: The car ride consists of me and driver.. for 180 to 200 kms.. from Ludhiana to Amritsar.. via Jalandhar and The last stop is Beas.. small township 20 kms ahead of Amritsar

09/02/18, 8:53 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 8:54 PM - Abe: Along the way we picked up Vishwani from her job.. she was working as intern in a software company in Jalandhar

09/02/18, 8:55 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Cool

09/02/18, 8:56 PM - Abe: It was 5 pm in the evening when we faced for the first time as she got in to back seat of the car.. we greeted... Smiled.. laughed and surreal in meeting her for the first time

09/02/18, 8:56 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Nice! Young love 😍

09/02/18, 8:57 PM - Abe: Yes

09/02/18, 8:57 PM - Abe: So.. I spoke the few mastered Punjabi lines which I learnt from the driver

09/02/18, 8:57 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: To flatter her?

09/02/18, 8:58 PM - Abe: She was so happy and laughing out loud

09/02/18, 8:58 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: She was flattered

09/02/18, 8:58 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok continue

09/02/18, 8:58 PM - Abe: Yes.. she was

09/02/18, 8:59 PM - Abe: As time went by.. we spoke about work.. how long I was staying.. this and that

09/02/18, 8:59 PM - Abe: We reached her home by 6:45

09/02/18, 8:59 PM - Abe: And to my surprise everyone in her house was there to greet me

09/02/18, 9:00 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: 👏🏽👏🏽

09/02/18, 9:00 PM - Abe: Her mother.. younger brother.. aunts.. cousins.. and even grandpa and grandma

09/02/18, 9:00 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Wow

09/02/18, 9:01 PM - Abe: A hour later her elder sister.. her husband and their little princess Siona

09/02/18, 9:01 PM - Abe: Everyone was there

09/02/18, 9:02 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Siona beautiful name

09/02/18, 9:02 PM - Abe: Yes

09/02/18, 9:03 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: What did you delete

09/02/18, 9:03 PM - Abe: Give me 5 mins...

09/02/18, 9:03 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: OK Abe

09/02/18, 9:03 PM - Abe: I wrongly wrote as store instead of stories

09/02/18, 9:03 PM - Abe: I just now reached home

09/02/18, 9:04 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: OK ok

09/02/18, 9:04 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Take time

09/02/18, 9:04 PM - Abe: Cool

09/02/18, 9:20 PM - Abe: so.. they were all surrounding me and asking me facts about my life

09/02/18, 9:20 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: She broke up with you?

09/02/18, 9:20 PM - Abe: and interesting enough there was one person whom i dear say was the lovable one among all.. it was their grandpa.. father and mother of the mom.. Vishwani's mom

09/02/18, 9:21 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 9:21 PM - Abe: i told you to be patient to hear me out entirely.. you be the judge to tell me if she broke up or not at the end..

09/02/18, 9:21 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Okay

09/02/18, 9:22 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Don't mind

09/02/18, 9:23 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: How long is the story

09/02/18, 9:23 PM - Abe: The grandpa was telling me that she use to love the girl of his life so much that they were intercaste married after little bit of hesitation from the family elders of their times.. the grandpa i am talking about is in his late 80s and the grandma was in late 80s as well.. so imagine that.

09/02/18, 9:23 PM - Abe: this story will go for another hour or so...

09/02/18, 9:23 PM - Abe: this is just chapter 1..

09/02/18, 9:23 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: OK continue

09/02/18, 9:23 PM - Abe: there are 3 chapters to it.

09/02/18, 9:24 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: 😳

09/02/18, 9:25 PM - Abe: Is it taking your time?

09/02/18, 9:25 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: No no

09/02/18, 9:25 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Just wondering

09/02/18, 9:25 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Continue

09/02/18, 9:26 PM - Abe: Well.. the grandpa.. was from Singh and she was an Arora.. Hindu highest regarded peoples..

09/02/18, 9:26 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 9:26 PM - Abe: He then blessed me all the best.. and it was wonderful that their grand daughter gets to have such a handsome man in life..

09/02/18, 9:27 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: 😀 ok

09/02/18, 9:27 PM - Abe: Later that night I spent a couple of minutes alone with her in the roof of her house.

09/02/18, 9:27 PM - Abe: Her house is literally a clinic on the bottom.. and 2 floors of lavish house above.

09/02/18, 9:27 PM - Abe: Her mother and father were both medical doctors..

09/02/18, 9:28 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Awesome

09/02/18, 9:30 PM - Abe: That night I spoke with her about many things.. how my house looks.. middle class life..

09/02/18, 9:31 PM - Abe: i wanted to remember it in such a way that what i told was all but the truth to her. so. i spoke in the background of the music i love the most Le onde ( A guitar Ensemble ) which i was putting out mildly in my trowser pocket in speaker

09/02/18, 9:32 PM - Abe: Slowly it was pitch dark and we both left downstairs to take the sleep that i wanted the most.

09/02/18, 9:33 PM - Abe: I woke up the next day, Sunday and was waiting to have the breakfast at their place. all those naans and rotti and butter smell was tempting me.

09/02/18, 9:34 PM - Abe: later to my surprise of early morning waking act. followed with the information that it was Havan day! which is offering prayer to loved one's day..

09/02/18, 9:34 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 9:35 PM - Abe: so from 7 am in the morning to 9 am.. i was sitting in circle in front of the lit fire in a huge open balcony of their house and literally soaking myself in mantras and chants

09/02/18, 9:36 PM - Abe: She was smiling at the other end of the circle waving at me and saying in sign language that in few minutes it will be done and " was i hungry?"

09/02/18, 9:36 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: OK

09/02/18, 9:36 PM - Abe: i was like.. chill.. stomach of steel!! i stuffed so much rotti the earlier night that i could survive for 3 straight days with it

09/02/18, 9:37 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Oh cheesy cheesy

09/02/18, 9:37 PM - Abe: Next, after the grand breakfast. we left in a giant Tata Safari car.

09/02/18, 9:37 PM - Abe: we went to Amristar

09/02/18, 9:38 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Good place

09/02/18, 9:38 PM - Abe: we went first to Jalian walabagh and the surrounding botanical garden.

09/02/18, 9:38 PM - Abe: then later on we went to the Golden temple.

09/02/18, 9:39 PM - Abe: on the opening of the Golden temple there was this huge pile of chamber rooms which houses all the devotees slippers..

09/02/18, 9:39 PM - Abe: to my shock Vishwani was collecting everyone's slipper in the family and placing them in one of the chambers

09/02/18, 9:40 PM - Abe: she also took mine in hand and i gestured her that i could do it myself. she said adamantly that its what we meant to do as a servant of God in showing kindness and gratitude to one another

09/02/18, 9:41 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Oh

09/02/18, 9:41 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Nice of her

09/02/18, 9:41 PM - Abe: she also told me that few CEOs and Managing Directors can be seen distributing Halwa( their version of Kesari ) inside the shrine of Guru Granth Saheeb

09/02/18, 9:43 PM - Abe: the constant lingering of Satnam Waheguru.. it keeps pf repeating in every persons mouth inside the shrine. it was calm and quiet inside the resting place of his shrine.

09/02/18, 9:43 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hmm

09/02/18, 9:43 PM - Abe: The Brother-in-law ( husband of Vishwani's sister) took me on a detour and up we went to the top of the golden shrine

09/02/18, 9:45 PM - Abe: it was mesmerizing.. silent waters on all 4 sides and the golden orbs and statutes on the top. i took some secret snaps on top but was requested and stopped by little kids, " Bhaiya, Please don't take pictures "

09/02/18, 9:45 PM - Abe: they were so adorable and cute to say that as well

09/02/18, 9:46 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: 😊

09/02/18, 9:46 PM - Abe: later on, the in-law mocked me on how Tamil's would always end every sentence in illa illa ( no isn't it).. since he is a radiologist and travels around the world at all times..

09/02/18, 9:47 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Haha ok

09/02/18, 9:47 PM - Abe: it so happened that the day came to an end in living my dream of experiencing awesome destination

09/02/18, 9:47 PM - Abe: The next i woke up in their own. i phoned up my Super boss, Mukund sir and told him just the details that he wants to know..

09/02/18, 9:48 PM - Abe: he was asking me " did the girl say yes? that is what most needed" I know you will do market survey and all.. whats the result.

09/02/18, 9:49 PM - Abe: I told him that its all on her hand.. the mom and all the others in the family are okay with me.

09/02/18, 9:49 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Yes what's the result

09/02/18, 9:49 PM - Abe: Wait wait...

09/02/18, 9:50 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: 😐

09/02/18, 9:50 PM - Abe: I told him that I was initially planning to take the car again to Jalandhar to start my office work but plans changed and i wanted to take the everyday commute of Metro train with her.

09/02/18, 9:50 PM - Abe: so, she and I went to the metro station in Beas. took the train and left.

09/02/18, 9:50 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Oh

09/02/18, 9:51 PM - Abe: We spoke again about what she thinks of life in different city. how she is pampered and cared for. how she wants to explore the world

09/02/18, 9:51 PM - Abe: so on and on

09/02/18, 9:52 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 9:52 PM - Abe: Then she told me that she needed time to answer to the question of marriage and all she knew of this idea of matrimony and sorts is due to mother's ideology of early marriage and early settling in life

09/02/18, 9:53 PM - Abe: which she then said is too soon for her to think

09/02/18, 9:53 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 9:53 PM - Abe: the next week was as usual me getting back to routine and work and weeks gone by..

09/02/18, 9:54 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hmm

09/02/18, 9:54 PM - Abe: everyone in the northern market of my company knew of me as the boy who came to meet his love through Mukund sir

09/02/18, 9:55 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hmm

09/02/18, 9:55 PM - Abe: Few months later she told me that it was too quick for me to take this decision of marriage in life and i dont want you to wait for me and missing out marriage and elder's blessing

09/02/18, 9:56 PM - Abe: She stopped talking with me altogether even i tried persisting few times through her mother

09/02/18, 9:56 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Oh boy

09/02/18, 9:56 PM - Abe: Then exactly a year and 2 months later

09/02/18, 9:57 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hmmm

09/02/18, 9:57 PM - Abe: she sent me a message in Facebook saying that she is all good and hope that i am all well

09/02/18, 9:57 PM - Abe: this is chapter 2...

09/02/18, 9:57 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Okay

09/02/18, 9:58 PM - Abe: She told me that she is presently working in Tech Mahindra and she has also been preparing for GRE exams

09/02/18, 9:58 PM - Abe: I told her that i am still in the same company and that i am as always.. good

09/02/18, 9:59 PM - Abe: She told me then that since she is in Bengaluru she has opted for the Visa Interview in Chennai rather than Hydreabad or Mumbai

09/02/18, 9:59 PM - Abe: I told her thats awesome..

09/02/18, 10:00 PM - Abe: I was fully back on... i told her i will take care of everything

09/02/18, 10:01 PM - Abe: I booked her shatabti a day ahead of her interview on the weekend.. return the sunday night and one way veg dinner and the other way non-veg since she should feel healthy while coming for the interview

09/02/18, 10:02 PM - Abe: Then I went and waited for her train to arrive in central station.. she said that she found her friend's friend place to stay in Sholinganallur

09/02/18, 10:03 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:03 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Are you unhappy?

09/02/18, 10:03 PM - Abe: I was not.. i cant ask her to stay at my home..

09/02/18, 10:03 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:03 PM - Abe: but what i did was that i surprised my mom.. i didnt tell her to the last minute that i am bringing her home

09/02/18, 10:04 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:05 PM - Abe: She was all happy and full of joy to meet her.. my mom was like how come she smells like she just came out of a perfume shop

09/02/18, 10:06 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Haha ok

09/02/18, 10:07 PM - Abe: I took her to her friend's place and dropped her off and promised that i would come to pick her up for the bio metrics the next day

09/02/18, 10:07 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: OK

09/02/18, 10:07 PM - Abe: she said that she cant start that early to know the place since her friend is in night shift.. so she said that she will wake up and come to my home to take bath and leave for biometrics

09/02/18, 10:08 PM - Abe: i was like, dude.. why worry.. i will come and pick up sharply at 6 am

09/02/18, 10:08 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:09 PM - Abe: so.. she came to my home the next day morning.. took her bath in my home and had breakfast and then we left for biometrics

09/02/18, 10:09 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:09 PM - Abe: it was done and we had 6 hours until her friend comes back to her room and sleep

09/02/18, 10:10 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:10 PM - Abe: i said, let me show you my south side life..

09/02/18, 10:10 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Okay

09/02/18, 10:10 PM - Abe: I took her to Dakshinchitra in ECR and gave her full history of Tamil culture..

09/02/18, 10:11 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hmm

09/02/18, 10:11 PM - Abe: i treated her with different varieties of Dosa..

09/02/18, 10:11 PM - Abe: Then i dropped her off in the room of her friend

09/02/18, 10:11 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:12 PM - Abe: next day 11 am US embassy in Chennai was the interview

09/02/18, 10:12 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:12 PM - Abe: we both went there together.. she told me that she will manage herself in car or taxi.. but i stood the whole 3 hours in the Madras heat of sun.. month of May..only for her

09/02/18, 10:13 PM - Abe: She came out smiling , POUNCHGAYA ( i got it )

09/02/18, 10:13 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hmmm. Love smitten you

09/02/18, 10:13 PM - Abe: yes.. that is right smitten me!!!

09/02/18, 10:14 PM - Abe: So, what do we do next.. we had 5 hours until the train...back to Bengaluru

09/02/18, 10:14 PM - Abe: i told her that Beach and Central station was close by

09/02/18, 10:14 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hmm

09/02/18, 10:14 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:15 PM - Abe: which i lied intentionally that i know that she would never say NO... because Beach she saw for the first time in her life at age of 21 in Goa..

09/02/18, 10:16 PM - Abe: so.. this is her first East side beach of India.. she was like OH YEAH.. TAKE ME TO BEACH..

09/02/18, 10:16 PM - Abe: so... i rolled her suitcase across the sandy beach and walked with her..

09/02/18, 10:16 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:16 PM - Abe: she played a few times in the water..

09/02/18, 10:17 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: You love her so much I guess

09/02/18, 10:17 PM - Abe: I asked her once again that if there is anything between us..

09/02/18, 10:17 PM - Abe: She said, " See Abe.. i want you to move on in life and make your parents happy in getting married at right age."

09/02/18, 10:18 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:18 PM - Abe: she said that she cant imagine her life in south india and leaving all her masters degree dream

09/02/18, 10:18 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hmmm

09/02/18, 10:18 PM - Abe: I told her that is cool

09/02/18, 10:19 PM - Abe: She kept asking me if you are my good friend please tell me how much i should pay you for everything that you spent for me in the last 2 days

09/02/18, 10:19 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Am sorry to say but she shouldn't have contacted you in fb

09/02/18, 10:20 PM - Abe: I told her, I prefer two types of payment.. Either in Cash or in Kind

09/02/18, 10:20 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Go on

09/02/18, 10:21 PM - Abe: there there.. past is one way... shouldn't have contacted in FB is all but different now.. how else would i have this story then..

09/02/18, 10:21 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Am practical person

09/02/18, 10:21 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: She needed someone to help her out in Chennai trip

09/02/18, 10:22 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Am sorry. That's what I felt

09/02/18, 10:22 PM - Abe: So.. after visiting Anna Memorial, MGR memorial, Walking across Burma Buzzar  and having special Dosa again in hot chips we left for Central station

09/02/18, 10:23 PM - Abe: She saw the sweet potato in the side walkway and wanted to try it out..

09/02/18, 10:23 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hmm

09/02/18, 10:23 PM - Abe: she took out her purse to pay but i paid the person in swift motion of my hands

09/02/18, 10:23 PM - Abe: i nudged her to keep her purse safe from robbers everywhere in central station

09/02/18, 10:24 PM - Abe: She kept asking me how much the ticket cost was..

09/02/18, 10:24 PM - Abe: i told her that i would collect it in the platform

09/02/18, 10:24 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hmm

09/02/18, 10:24 PM - Abe: So, we got in to the train.. showed her seats and she turned out her purse to give me the cash..

09/02/18, 10:25 PM - Abe: I turned back and ran looking back at her and saying Bye..

09/02/18, 10:25 PM - Abe: she was yelling my name and saying me to come back..

09/02/18, 10:25 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:26 PM - Abe: i did not respond to her

09/02/18, 10:26 PM - Abe: i disappeared in the crowd

09/02/18, 10:26 PM - Abe: she kept calling my number

09/02/18, 10:26 PM - Abe: she sent me message.. this is not good. come back and see me now..

09/02/18, 10:26 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:27 PM - Abe: I replied back saying, " I told you that i prefer either cash or kind.. I chose Kind "

09/02/18, 10:27 PM - Abe: for which she said..okay.. your wish..

09/02/18, 10:28 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Oh my my my

09/02/18, 10:28 PM - Abe: End of chapter 2

09/02/18, 10:28 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: One minute

09/02/18, 10:28 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Please

09/02/18, 10:28 PM - Abe: okay

09/02/18, 10:29 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Can you share chapter 3 tomorrow

09/02/18, 10:29 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: When you are free

09/02/18, 10:29 PM - Abe: it will take me another 5 mins

09/02/18, 10:29 PM - Abe: thats all

09/02/18, 10:29 PM - Abe: this is the smallest chapter

09/02/18, 10:29 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:29 PM - Abe: I helped her out in the Orientation of her college through Webinar seesions

09/02/18, 10:30 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:30 PM - Abe: she had asked me to sit in her place and take notes on what to carry through US immigration..

09/02/18, 10:30 PM - Abe: tips and other stuffs for newly joining students

09/02/18, 10:31 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:31 PM - Abe: That was the only means of contact which i had with her after the Chennai Chapter

09/02/18, 10:31 PM - Abe: this lasted for couple of days

09/02/18, 10:31 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Hmm

09/02/18, 10:32 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:32 PM - Abe: then.. after a year of so after that.. she sent me a message in hangouts saying that it kind of reminded me in hearing all the stories about the younger batch and their biometrics hurdles

09/02/18, 10:32 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Ok

09/02/18, 10:32 PM - Abe: I wish everyone had someone like you to have waited and helped me as such

09/02/18, 10:33 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Wow

09/02/18, 10:33 PM - Abe: she had realisation that i waited 3 hours outside the US embassy only 1 year later..

09/02/18, 10:34 PM - Abe: I told her.. be kind to yourself and the people around you.. always good things happen to those who wait..

09/02/18, 10:34 PM - Abe: she replied back saying that please get married soon in your life...

09/02/18, 10:34 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Am so angry right now I literally would have beaten you right now

09/02/18, 10:34 PM - Abe: i said.. yes.. i will

09/02/18, 10:34 PM - Abe: haha.. we never spoke again..

09/02/18, 10:34 PM - Abe: End of Chapter 3

09/02/18, 10:35 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: Thank God

09/02/18, 10:35 PM - Abe: i am going to post this entire story as a blog now

09/02/18, 10:35 PM - Abe: Thanks Sunitha for rekindling my memory

09/02/18, 10:35 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: You are just giving and giving and giving

09/02/18, 10:35 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: God girls

09/02/18, 10:36 PM - Sunitha Gurusamy: You know what

 


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